There are a lot of sexy things in the world, but power is super sexy. Stop and think about it. How turned on do you feel when you encounter your own power or the power of someone else?
Power is a turn on, right?
I think power is so sexy because it gives us access to pleasure. And pleasure is really good for our minds and bodies. It means we can soften into the healing realm of our nervous system and play, grow, digest and love each other more.
How is your relationship to power?
If your relationship to power is fearful or underdeveloped it will show up in your sexuality. How do you know? You won't get turned on by power. You won't fantasize about it or enjoy the normal, healthy power dynamics of sexual relationships. Your relationship to power in the bedroom is showing you how you relate to power in your life. What do you see there? (Cont'd)