Men provide a unique problem for women because we need their love. The feminine needs to be embraced by the masculine, and vice versa. This is nature. When the feminine is cut off from the masculine, as we see in the film "The Virgin Suicides" the women self-destruct. As I was watching this film, I was so aware of how much men love women. The men in this film know no greater love than what they feel for these women, yet they are completely unable to express it with words or actions. The few moments they do, leave the women hungry for more of this life-giving substance, of which the men's fears, insecurities and confusions make them unable to provide.
Men do love women. Yes, they do. But at this time in history, like a sick plant that is unable to bear fruit, men are in a very unhealthy place. Masculinity has become something stoic, hard, wounded and retreating. The expressive, giving, adoring men, the Romeo's, the Jacob's, the Antony's are difficult to find. While men love us, they struggle to communicate it, they fear to express it, and they take our love while not giving sufficiently in return. David Deida says this in his book "The Way of the Superior Man": “The next time your woman is in a bad mood, try this: assume she is not feeling loved.” He also says, “No matter what your woman says or does, give her love.” Love really is the food, the medicine, the life source we are all looking for.
Until the masculine heals and remembers how to love, or until we meet menwho are capable of sharing with us the love that we share with them, I find that we must remember three things:
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